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Just tap me on the shoulder

Posted by on January 4, 2011 at 8:04 pm

A man full of grit when the job requires it, but a roman­tic who strate­gi­cally leaves flow­ers for no occa­sion, or plans a spe­cial evening; some­one solid, depend­able; a man who can “drive” both a mini-van and a road­ster con­vert­ible; a tough nego­tia­tor, but some­one who pos­sesses innate, effort­less kind­ness; has good taste in food/wines, […]

Reality Checks Accepted Here

Posted by on September 8, 2010 at 2:28 pm
Titanic Sinking

Eman­ci­pate your­selves from men­tal slav­ery; None but our­selves can free our minds. — Bob Mar­ley, Redemp­tion Song When I gaze across “the big pond” in my imag­i­na­tion, I see a vast land full of promise and poten­tial. A few hun­dred years ago it was pop­u­lated with a coura­geous, adven­tur­ous, free-spirited peo­ple, who have now become fairly […]

Redefining the American Dream

Posted by on August 31, 2010 at 7:58 pm

The ulti­mate mea­sure of a man or woman is not where he stands in moments of com­fort and con­ve­nience, but where he stands at times of chal­lenge and con­tro­versy.” ~ Mar­tin Luther King It’s time to stop look­ing to Wash­ing­ton for answers. We won’t get them from a new pol­icy or a new law or […]

When The Lights Go Out

Posted by on July 28, 2010 at 1:36 pm

How pre­pared am I for when the lights go out, when the oil party ends, when global warm­ing results in the oceans ris­ing, or nuclear war breaks out, or the global econ­omy totally col­lapses, or tsunamis, tor­na­does, hur­ri­canes, wild­fires, earth­quakes, and vol­ca­noes change every­thing? What will I be left with, when the lights go out? I […]

Becoming Community Creatures

Posted by on July 21, 2010 at 4:22 pm

Think­ing of “becom­ing com­mu­nity crea­tures” brings back mem­o­ries of the Y2K “panic”.  Peo­ple started get­ting together in small groups or large within their com­mu­ni­ties and dis­cussed dis­as­ter prepa­ra­tions. There is one type of per­son that stood out in my com­mu­nity. At the time, my com­mu­nity was very small, only 1000 peo­ple, but it was part […]

Community Creatures

Posted by on July 17, 2010 at 6:39 pm

It is our task — our essen­tial, cen­tral, cru­cial task — to trans­form our­selves from mere social crea­tures into com­mu­nity crea­tures. It is the only way human evo­lu­tion will be able to pro­ceed.” — Scott Peck There is no one def­i­n­i­tion for “com­mu­nity.” There are local, regional, state, national, and world-wide def­i­n­i­tions; there is the […]

Children Learning Maturity

Posted by on July 12, 2010 at 7:02 pm

Imag­ine for a moment, grand­par­ents rais­ing grand­chil­dren. Grand­par­ents who aren’t con­cerned about being sexy or hook­ing up with some­one. Grand­par­ents who are whole peo­ple, suf­fi­cient unto them­selves in all ways. Self-sufficient in the ways we com­monly under­stand it, but with a new twist. Yes, these mature adults have been there and done it, have taken care […]

A New Definition of Maturity

Posted by on July 10, 2010 at 8:42 pm
A New Definition Of Maturity

Men go through one change of life, from child­hood to adult­hood. There is no defin­i­tive moment for another change, although the­o­ries abound. Child­hood is under­stood to be that period in which the younger mem­bers of soci­ety are in train­ing to become adults. This is a time of inno­cence, before the com­pul­sion of hor­mones envelop the […]

The Mad Tea Party

Posted by on July 8, 2010 at 12:27 am

Like Alice falling down that rab­bit hole or step­ping through the Look­ing Glass, one moment I’m in this real­ity and in another moment I’m some­where alto­gether dif­fer­ent. All it is, is a change of per­spec­tive. I don’t usu­ally do well with such a dra­matic change, but like the White Rab­bit, I’m wor­ried that I’m late. […]

The Third Ear

Posted by on July 7, 2010 at 5:56 pm

What if the ear was our pri­mary sen­sory organ? What if it is? What if we, as humans, were not bun­dles of elec­tri­cal impulses but, instead, vibra­tional beings? She stood in the kitchen, hear­ing the espresso machine’s hiss, the buzz of a fran­tic fly try­ing to escape out the closed win­dow, the tick­ing of the […]

FlashLite

Posted by on June 30, 2010 at 2:24 am

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Questioning the Paradigm

Posted by on June 21, 2010 at 2:41 pm

What Writ­ers Do Best Are you won­der­ing why writ­ing for Sin­gle Writ­ers is a good idea? Because your writ­ing could change the world! In 1962, two writ­ers trans­formed soci­ety with their mag­a­zine arti­cles. Glo­ria Steinem, a free­lance writer, was com­mis­sioned by Esquire mag­a­zine to write some­thing about con­tra­cep­tion. The result­ing arti­cle about how women were forced to choose […]